Grow through what you go through
- Tasneem Behardien
- Dec 21, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: Oct 17, 2023

Some very valuable life lessons I learnt on deeper levels this year...
When you’re going through some intense difficulty
When you’re experiencing a cross roads and your not sure which way to go
When you stuck in a rut
Remember what you prayed for
Again I was reminded of this.
When you ask for something, in order for Allah to grant it to you, you have to come into alignment with it. Also known as "change your condition"
Example
If you want emotionally fulfilling relationships, what will most likely happen is :
Relationship break downs and breaks ups that can be very painful with conflict, tears and grief.
Being triggered and having to work through your own emotional triggers, which creates deeper emotional awareness
Letting go of unfulfilling relationships to make space for fulfilling relationships
Lots of praying, questioning, self reflection, revelations, healing and expansion
And then voila, suddenly through it all you end up having emotionally fulfilling relationships
Get my point…
Your challenges, difficulties and obstacles are part of the path
Aspects of self and life that require to be shifted, embraced, let go of, or transmuted to grant you what you desire.
Life is happening for you
For your expansion
For your growth
For what you prayed for
So embrace the journey, it’s the process of forging Yourself
The one you aspire to be and prayed to become
You are loved by Allah because you prayed to Him and He has answered
He is grooming you and preparing you for what you asked for
For me, I asked to be spiritually strong and balanced
Emotional strong and balanced
Mentally strong and balanced
My journey has been paved with …
Severe spiritual problems,
a all in one crash course on spiritual, emotional and mental evolution and strength.
Do or die vibes.
Gods sense of humour.
So I’m learning many lessons about what it means to be spiritually strong
Where I’m learning to work hard in the spiritual realm, even more so than how I work in the physical realm.
I’m not gonna lie, it’s been intense. I haven’t seen any fruits of my labour and I’ve been questioning and been on the edge of giving up most days, but I push through
Because Allahs promise is true and I need to strive for what I want. The want He put into in my heart
I am in the growth phase of this stage of my evolution
Like a caterpillar in a cocoon
Preparing to emerge as a butterfly
Or
A phoenix rising from the ashes
Watch me rise
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